Big_Damn_Hero all posts by I was Recently asked to work with a boy of ten, who all his free time spends on computer games. If he deny, maybe a day not to eat, with their parents not to talk. One day after the ban was a call from the school, reported that the son is truant for a week. It turned out that he walks instead of school to the Internet cafe to play. Parents went to an Internet cafe, did not let his son in school time, to limit the money. The boy began to steal, to take, to go to another cafe.
Began to look for the reason. Spent in the house a couple of days, looked how is the communication between parents and child.
Comes home from school, immediately behind a computer. Sometimes at the insistence of parents is to first lessons, but with an emphasis on speed and not quality. In the morning before school goes to check out the game. Lunch at the computer causing constant skirmishes with the parents.
Asked him to eat at the table once. He agreed. As per table nchego happens, the TV is on in the background all eat in silence or asking trite “As success in school.”
In the evening, parents are asked to turn off the computer. If the boy obeys, then they will Continue reading
In many modern families is about the lack of communication . Dad and mom are constantly busy. Each to his own. A child left to himself. And only when it negatively affects the influence of the street, the parent wonder: Where is it? After all in the family all is well. There is no conflict. Excluded scandals. But there is a cold indifference. There is no interest in the upbringing of children, communicate with them, timely praise. The only thing is education, this is the control over the ate of bad timing, did the lessons. And the child needs to communicate, in conversations with adults . It is important to have shown a sincere interest, had understood him, he wants parents to consider first and foremost friends. And it should be able to.
It is very important to instill confidence in the correctness of their views, in case of an error – tactfully to correct, but in any case not to offend; the coincidence of the views of the child and the adult – be sure to praise.
You can not give the child to feel weak. Produced an inferiority complex, lack of confidence in their strength. It will have on family life. Dangerous and back – the belief in the exclusivity of abilities. While parents help, people cope. Embarked on an independent path, Continue reading
Parenting is one of the key parental tasks, which, as a complex mathematical equation may have many solutions. Ways and means of solving this very difficult and responsible tasks are called methods of education. Depending on the age of the child, his behavior and personality, parents can apply a variety of methods of education. The choice of parents used methods of education largely depends on how the parents themselves were brought up, how is the level of pedagogical and psychological knowledge, also largely depends on what values a priority for the family, how parents realize the importance of education and the role assigned to them.
Important role when choosing methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, a complacent and democratic.
Parenting techniques not only allow to create a harmonious, Mature personality, sometimes they become the causes of many psychological complexes.
Basic methods of education
Method conversation or beliefs. This method can be applied in the education of children of different ages and with any character. During the conversation, the parent explains, and argues for how one ought to behave in a given situation, figures out the motives of the baby. The tone of the speech of the parent in conversation should be calm, confident and solid. Continue reading