The Children after the divorce of his parents: help in fitting
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Parental Divorce: what problems in children after the divorce?
  In life some couples there comes a point when they realize that their relationship is over and the marriage has no future. According to statistics, the number of couples…

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The Education of children in the modern family

 

In many modern families is about the lack of communication . Dad and mom are constantly busy. Each to his own. A child left to himself. And only when it negatively affects the influence of the street, the parent wonder: Where is it? After all in the family all is well. There is no conflict. Excluded scandals. But there is a cold indifference. There is no interest in the upbringing of children, communicate with them, timely praise. The only thing is education, this is the control over the ate of bad timing, did the lessons. And the child needs to communicate, in conversations with adults . It is important to have shown a sincere interest, had understood him, he wants parents to consider first and foremost friends. And it should be able to.

It is very important to instill confidence in the correctness of their views, in case of an error – tactfully to correct, but in any case not to offend; the coincidence of the views of the child and the adult – be sure to praise.

You can not give the child to feel weak. Produced an inferiority complex, lack of confidence in their strength. It will have on family life. Dangerous and back – the belief in the exclusivity of abilities. While parents help, people cope. Embarked on an independent path, Continue reading

How not to spoil the child

 

Desire love your child, to protect him from anxiety, to create a sense of security and the desire to constantly delight – it is the natural expression of the maternal instinct. In the first years of life the baby’s parents, both physically and psychologically, so mom and dad feel a great responsibility for everything that happens to him.

Often, however, love is inherent in man and woman by nature in relation to her child, becomes a dangerous border, and then mom and dad, consciously or not, begin to dominate the baby, and the baby turns into a little tyrant, exploiting the weaknesses of loved ones as a tool of manipulation over them. Overprotection and desire to fulfill all the whims of a child affects him negatively, so you must set some rules. and to demand from the child of their performance.

How to eliminate the blackmail

Almost everything we are sometimes violated certain rules: don’t go to work told the boss that you are sick, but actually just don’t want to go somewhere; we buy a bag of chips and a bottle of coke, even though I promised myself not to eat junk food; don’t brush our teeth before bedtime, because laziness and so on. Then why we say sharp «no» the request of the child with a chocolate bar on the way home or his desire to watch an interesting cartoon that started late?

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The influence of the environment on the personality development of the child

 

A person becomes a person only in the process of socialization, i.e. communication, interaction with other people. Outside of human society, spiritual, social, mental development cannot occur. The reality, in which the development occurs is called the environment. On the formation of personality is influenced by various external conditions, including geographic, social, school, family. The intensity of contacts is allocated near and far environment. When teachers say about the impact of the environment, they mean primarily the social environment and home. The first refers to distant places, and to the nearest second. The concept of “social environment” includes such common characteristics as a social system, the system of industrial relations, material conditions of life, the character of the course of production and social processes, and some others. Near Wednesday is family, relatives, friends.

What is the influence of the environment on human development? Unity in the assessment of the impact of environment on human development yet. The tremendous Continue reading

Formation of independence
  Semenyuk L. M. reader in developmental psychology: textbook for students/ed. by D. I. Feldstein: edition 2, revised. – Moscow: Institute of practical psychology, 1996. – 304 p. The formation…

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Rules of behavior on the Playground: what to do if greedy child
As I wrote in a previous column, we have, finally, come warm days, and this means that the concentration of children on playgrounds has increased dramatically at times. Moved outside…

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