As I wrote in a previous column, we have, finally, come warm days, and this means that the concentration of children on playgrounds has increased dramatically at times. Moved outside and toys that serious, there is a daily battle. How to prevent fights in the sandbox? What to do if a child does not share toys . All you need to follow the rules of behavior on the Playground .
Rules of behavior on the Playground
1. Don’t stand aside
The atmosphere on the Playground is entirely dependent on the parents. The kids behavior is largely determined by how the adults will communicate with each other, react to the actions of other children, arrange play space, as will behave in a conflict situation.
2. Toys in the sandbox – shared
Have you noticed that the presence of other toys automatically makes their unattractive? I have realized that their toys (bucket, shovel, crayons, ball and other attributes) we make not to play themselves, but in order to make equivalent exchange. Simply put, if the Theme is digging the sand is unclear whose shovel, I’m calm Continue reading
This belief is the very consequence of the desire of parents to see that children achieved good results in everything he undertakes. We all want our children enjoy success and were pleased with myself.
However, we must understand that it is difficult to distinguish between approval and disapproval of what they do and who they are as individuals. In other words, praise the parents for some kind of achievement the child can receive as a sign of love. It is also possible the reverse situation. Disapproval, condemnation, the child may perceive as an attempt to cast him as a manifestation of the lack of love from parents. This trend first inherent in younger children.
Children desperately want to feel that parents love and accept them for what they are, regardless of victory or defeat they suffered at that moment. This important phenomenon is called ” unconditional love “. In short, unconditional love means that our children feel that we will never, under any circumstances, will not cease to love them. Can approve or not to take specific actions, the behavior of the child, but love for him should remain inviolable.
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There are three types of this neurological disorder. Most distributed mixed variant: hyperactivity when combined with impaired attention. The most rare case when hyperactivity is manifested in its purest form. These two types of “good” the fact that they’re easy enough to identify. But attention disorders without a specific motor activity parents notice not always, and even when to see a doctor to diagnose this disorders is difficult.
Usually the diagnosis of ADHD during the first call preschoolers do not put, and watching them for a few months, during which time the symptoms should persist. This helps to avoid diagnostic errors.
Parent, pull yourself together!
So, the diagnosis is made. Now facing a long and very important work with the child. And on its success depends the able whether your child become a successful person, a productive member of society. There are many principles, methods and techniques of education “shustrikov”. But before you start implementing them, parents need to understand their own thoughts, feelings and moods. Because children have an intuitive sense of internal insecurity relatives. Therefore, we should start with self-study. For the first time faced with the problem of the child, the parents Continue reading