I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “No, no, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.
At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go through their steps to night”. The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.
“wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.
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Teenagers are a special people, a special nation. They have their own interests and Hobbies, sometimes even their language, others were confusing. It would seem that the interests of a teenager? The festivities late, friends, clubs, loud parties… And parents always think that their nestlings had already fledged and really took off from the family nest into adulthood…
However, whatever the adults did not seem to your kids – they are still in great need of his family. If in the life of a teenager something is impossible, he is unlikely to go for advice to the parent (rebellious spirit!), but this does not mean that he does not want to do it! Invisible thin and ghostly thread linked each child has his home, with family. With mom and dad. With mom and dad. He has in life has its own problems: lack of implementation, unrequited love, first bitter encounter with betrayal. They can not be avoided. From them the child is in hiding at home, in a cozy family fortress, where all such family where mom loves dad and dad loves mom.
Most often, the divorce, the children also perceive it as a betrayal of those closest to you.
Children with divorced parents
Life is unpredictable, it sometimes puts us in a difficult situation to check out how quick we will be able to cope with them. Continue reading
Surely, every parent, mom, and dad asked yourself the question: how can the child be accustomed to the order? After all, it’s actually not easy, of course nothing happens. You need to set a personal example to their children, even when they are quite small. You must keep your house or flat in constant order, then the child is living in such a comfortable environment, in the future, and even at the moment will stick to purity. After all, how the child will grow, depends on parents. Well, if mom and dad will live in a constant mess, and, accordingly, their child will see it every day, then he himself later on in his future home of the order contain not be. Will try to figure out how to teach a child to order.
The child needs to explain the following rule: need to clean up their toys, litter, and then confusion will not arise.
Very often there are moments when a child, playing in some game and scatter all his toys around the room, refusing to put them back in place. He begins to get annoyed, nervous, growl, cry, and my parents still can’t force him to clean up after themselves, and can sometimes be a conflict and quarrel. In this case, you must act out a fabulous situation. For example, let the baby’s room – it is a planet, and the planet needs Continue reading