The Lack of attention and love: how psychological trauma affects the future of man
  Psychological trauma, such as lack of attention, lack of love given to the parents of the child, as well as other problems of a young child in the family…

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Children can't hear what he said: what we say and how it is understood by our children
  Parents sometimes face the situation that they tell the child one thing and he does not hear and does the opposite. There is the anger and outrage. Let's see…

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The Lack of attention and love: how psychological trauma affects the future of man

 

Psychological trauma, such as lack of attention, lack of love given to the parents of the child, as well as other problems of a young child in the family are the main causes and roots of future psychological problems. If this person wants to understand the reasons why one or another psychological problem exists in his life, he will have to go back and to remember his difficult childhood.

Few can argue that his childhood was completely cloudless and happy. As a rule, most of us in a small child faced with a lack of attention . pay older, have experienced a lack of love and rejection of the very fact of its existence. All this inevitably contributed to the origin of those or other psychological trauma in children, which later resulted in specific psychological problems.

Man, being born, needs main things – unconditional love and infinite attention. Few people are born into extremely wealthy families. And few whose parents show unconditional love to their children. On the contrary, the prevailing part of the families (judging by the experience of Russia, it is about ninety percent of the total number according to unofficial statistics) – unsuccessful . The problems of a small child in such families are diverse: it can be single-parent families, Continue reading

The Education of children in the modern family

 

In many modern families is about the lack of communication . Dad and mom are constantly busy. Each to his own. A child left to himself. And only when it negatively affects the influence of the street, the parent wonder: Where is it? After all in the family all is well. There is no conflict. Excluded scandals. But there is a cold indifference. There is no interest in the upbringing of children, communicate with them, timely praise. The only thing is education, this is the control over the ate of bad timing, did the lessons. And the child needs to communicate, in conversations with adults . It is important to have shown a sincere interest, had understood him, he wants parents to consider first and foremost friends. And it should be able to.

It is very important to instill confidence in the correctness of their views, in case of an error – tactfully to correct, but in any case not to offend; the coincidence of the views of the child and the adult – be sure to praise.

You can not give the child to feel weak. Produced an inferiority complex, lack of confidence in their strength. It will have on family life. Dangerous and back – the belief in the exclusivity of abilities. While parents help, people cope. Embarked on an independent path, Continue reading

Tips psychologist parents of teenagers

 

What advice psychologist adolescents are most appropriate? In spring, many people feel a lack of energy, strength and desire to do anything. Are no exception and adolescents. Psychologists give certain recommendations, as adolescents to overcome the spring gloom. It seems that spring is no reason to be sad. For autumn Blues are more compelling reasons: the decrease of daylight hours, joyless waiting a long winter, a cold snap. However, what is certain is that spring and felt the unhappiness and apathy.

Depression spring and the Blues are two different things. When the person is experiencing spring Blues – he has decreased tone, but he normally thinks, does not lose interest in communication and doing what. A person starts a little more sleep, work less enthusiastically, may be a bit more irritable. Depression is fundamentally different from the above-mentioned symptoms.

Depression

Sensible advice of psychologist adolescents will help to cope with sadness, and enter into the normal rhythm of life. In depression there are three main symptom: slow speech, slow thinking, motor block, melancholy mood. A person who is depressed, it is difficult to communicate, Continue reading

How to raise children to respect their parents
  Communication between parents and children is often not easy. Parents often come complaints of child disobedience, and that the child belongs to radiusim his people without any respect. Not…

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Rules of behavior on the Playground: what to do if greedy child
As I wrote in a previous column, we have, finally, come warm days, and this means that the concentration of children on playgrounds has increased dramatically at times. Moved outside…

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