How not to spoil the child
  Desire love your child, to protect him from anxiety, to create a sense of security and the desire to constantly delight – it is the natural expression of the…

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Parenting without punishment, and Catherine Creek, kvols
Without punishment and yelling. Education without screaming and tantrums. To watch your favorite programs at any time. Just put an empty folder or a folder with some unknown files in…

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A Couple of questions about books on education and psychology of children

 

Question 1: I recommend the book of Joyce brothers here (well, most of that on TV broadcasts), but the name unfortunately I do not remember, said there was something about miss Bock either inside the book or in the title. Maybe someone knows what is this book? And where can it free then download. )

Question 2: where possible, again for free download the book simultaneously “to Communicate with the child, how?”

There and the book’s title, and abstract to her, and cover photo, and even a couple of chapters to read.

About Simultaneously. The book is very good to read and it is definitely worth it. Not without reason she comes to mind as the first Association on the phrase “Books about parenting”. Roughly as “the poet – Pushkin”, “part of the face – nose,” etc.))))

What I like about her?

First, it is well written and with a big, sincere sympathy to the children and parents.

Secondly, it is written very logically, reasonably and consistently, and also based on a serious theory and practice. Raised issue (how to hear the child, how to increase the chance to be heard by the child, how to set boundaries in relationships with children, Continue reading

The Dependence of the child from the computer and video games

 

In modern time, the computer is firmly entrenched in our lives, and today, to imagine the existence without a computer simply unrealistic. Practically every home has is a device that is used in different ways: for work, for study and for entertainment. But in addition to significantly facilitate our lives, the computer brings a range of problems. Often, the children and the computer are one. Moreover, it can be not only desktop, but also iPad or mobile phone. Teenagers abandoned the game in the fresh air, began to move less and spend more time in front of PC, lead a sedentary life. Company computer characters they are attracted to much more than real friends. These are the games for children on computer and regular communication in social networks leads subsequently to a computer addiction. That is, the virtual world replaces the world of real teenager.

Most computer addiction affects children insecure, closeted experiencing some difficulties in communicating with peers, by nature shy and having low self-esteem. The game allows them to escape reality, fulfill their desires, to feel strong, courageous, armed and experience brand new emotions. In the virtual world can “make yourself” the way you want: change your gender and age, Continue reading

Kids! What childhood fears?

 

Childhood fears – what is it? How do they work? How to help your child cope with them? Where is the line between an age characteristic and pathological fear, when you look for help? These and many other questions are often of concern to parents of children of preschool age.

Fear is one of the main emotions that signal about the threat to the welfare, health, human life; fear is not always a symptom of nervous or mental disease. From the point of view of human evolution, it plays a protective and educational role, contributing to the knowledge of the outside world. In the development of the child’s fear is also a way of separating their own “I” from all foreign and dangerous .

All children’s fears can be divided into two groups: “age, compulsory” and “purchased, the optional” . Under “age” is proposed to understand the fears caused by the patterns of development of the child’s psyche. For example, one-year old child is afraid to release the mother from view. This is because children of this age the concept of time is very vague. They can hardly imagine how much it’s two hours, three days, a month or a year. And if mom and dad disappear from sight, even for a very short time – that for the child Continue reading