This belief is the very consequence of the desire of parents to see that children achieved good results in everything he undertakes. We all want our children enjoy success and were pleased with myself.
However, we must understand that it is difficult to distinguish between approval and disapproval of what they do and who they are as individuals. In other words, praise the parents for some kind of achievement the child can receive as a sign of love. It is also possible the reverse situation. Disapproval, condemnation, the child may perceive as an attempt to cast him as a manifestation of the lack of love from parents. This trend first inherent in younger children.
Children desperately want to feel that parents love and accept them for what they are, regardless of victory or defeat they suffered at that moment. This important phenomenon is called ” unconditional love “. In short, unconditional love means that our children feel that we will never, under any circumstances, will not cease to love them. Can approve or not to take specific actions, the behavior of the child, but love for him should remain inviolable.
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In our lives the advent of the computer has become the norm, and understand how without them ever did. The computer helps us to not only work, but fun, especially for our children. And our men are accustomed to it so much that we begin to ask the question as to wean and what to do in this situation?
But allowing your children to play computer games, every parent thinks, does not traumatize the psyche of this game?
And some parents do feel some doubt whether you can admit your child to this dangerous car, and if so, how to choose a computer game . and what kind of educational computer games for kids it is better to choose?
Do children have a computer?
In considering the question whether the children of the computer . can confidently say that Yes, but only if its correct use. Let the child to use this technique with three years but not more than 15 – 20 minutes.
After six years you can increase this time up to half an hour and allow your child to play twice a day. Otherwise, the baby can perevoplotitsya, get too strong emotions and fatigue.
And the worst thing is that a child who sits for a long time at the computer gets unwanted blurred vision and lack of care.
What computer use?
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From the point of view of teachers and psychologists education children — this is one of the most complex psychological, social and pedagogical processes, consisting of a large number of links. On the formation of personality and consciousness of the child is influenced by many factors. Among them, the psychological climate in the family, emotional background, ambient atmosphere, the relationship between parents and many others. It is especially important to mention a personal example. Up to a certain age personal example of parents influence the behavior, habits and values of their children. For anybody not a secret that in children the tendency to imitate has a bright color. Parents often meet with difficulties in parenting related to lack of time and patience, overload at work and transfer some of the negative experiences and emotions on the child. This applies to families with different levels of cultural development and social level. To cause inconvenience to the child and to have a negative impact on the development of his inner world can parents with the highest level of culture and social security, and families Continue reading