Children mirror their parents
  About material expectations from marriage, early marriage, life for children and games during Services, says Archpriest Oleg Melnychuk. As the hierarchy of the classical Patriarchal Church family wife, husband,…

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Rules of behavior on the Playground: what to do if greedy child
As I wrote in a previous column, we have, finally, come warm days, and this means that the concentration of children on playgrounds has increased dramatically at times. Moved outside…

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A Couple of questions about books on education and psychology of children

 

Question 1: I recommend the book of Joyce brothers here (well, most of that on TV broadcasts), but the name unfortunately I do not remember, said there was something about miss Bock either inside the book or in the title. Maybe someone knows what is this book? And where can it free then download. )

Question 2: where possible, again for free download the book simultaneously “to Communicate with the child, how?”

There and the book’s title, and abstract to her, and cover photo, and even a couple of chapters to read.

About Simultaneously. The book is very good to read and it is definitely worth it. Not without reason she comes to mind as the first Association on the phrase “Books about parenting”. Roughly as “the poet – Pushkin”, “part of the face – nose,” etc.))))

What I like about her?

First, it is well written and with a big, sincere sympathy to the children and parents.

Secondly, it is written very logically, reasonably and consistently, and also based on a serious theory and practice. Raised issue (how to hear the child, how to increase the chance to be heard by the child, how to set boundaries in relationships with children, Continue reading

The Education of children in the modern family

 

In many modern families is about the lack of communication . Dad and mom are constantly busy. Each to his own. A child left to himself. And only when it negatively affects the influence of the street, the parent wonder: Where is it? After all in the family all is well. There is no conflict. Excluded scandals. But there is a cold indifference. There is no interest in the upbringing of children, communicate with them, timely praise. The only thing is education, this is the control over the ate of bad timing, did the lessons. And the child needs to communicate, in conversations with adults . It is important to have shown a sincere interest, had understood him, he wants parents to consider first and foremost friends. And it should be able to.

It is very important to instill confidence in the correctness of their views, in case of an error – tactfully to correct, but in any case not to offend; the coincidence of the views of the child and the adult – be sure to praise.

You can not give the child to feel weak. Produced an inferiority complex, lack of confidence in their strength. It will have on family life. Dangerous and back – the belief in the exclusivity of abilities. While parents help, people cope. Embarked on an independent path, Continue reading

Tips psychologist parents of teenagers

 

What advice psychologist adolescents are most appropriate? In spring, many people feel a lack of energy, strength and desire to do anything. Are no exception and adolescents. Psychologists give certain recommendations, as adolescents to overcome the spring gloom. It seems that spring is no reason to be sad. For autumn Blues are more compelling reasons: the decrease of daylight hours, joyless waiting a long winter, a cold snap. However, what is certain is that spring and felt the unhappiness and apathy.

Depression spring and the Blues are two different things. When the person is experiencing spring Blues – he has decreased tone, but he normally thinks, does not lose interest in communication and doing what. A person starts a little more sleep, work less enthusiastically, may be a bit more irritable. Depression is fundamentally different from the above-mentioned symptoms.

Depression

Sensible advice of psychologist adolescents will help to cope with sadness, and enter into the normal rhythm of life. In depression there are three main symptom: slow speech, slow thinking, motor block, melancholy mood. A person who is depressed, it is difficult to communicate, Continue reading