Natalia Nebarska teaches art to children and parents to correctly interpret creations kids. At 26 she is a mother of two wonderful daughters 2 and 7 years and head of the creative circle “Color bubbles” for children from 2 years to infinity. Natalia cheerful, ambitious and open. In a confidential conversation she told. why is it important to educate their children themselves, at what age can you trust the child a pencil and how much stereotypes affect the lives of modern parents.
– If you do not go into the psychology of transcripts of children’s drawing, it is best to ask the author, and that happens is that the baby is with mom’s hands are not painted, psychologist thinks is violence in the family, mother is a tyrant, and she’s actually behind them holding the gift, because hiding a surprise. And it is better just to look at — to Decipher the pattern correctly can only be a very experienced technician, and then after a conversation with the author.
– What age do I need to draw with your child?
– The child can draw from the moment he starts to turn over. Lay before him the paper or Wallpaper, give paint. Just remember that here the result is not important, important process! Continue reading
This belief is the very consequence of the desire of parents to see that children achieved good results in everything he undertakes. We all want our children enjoy success and were pleased with myself.
However, we must understand that it is difficult to distinguish between approval and disapproval of what they do and who they are as individuals. In other words, praise the parents for some kind of achievement the child can receive as a sign of love. It is also possible the reverse situation. Disapproval, condemnation, the child may perceive as an attempt to cast him as a manifestation of the lack of love from parents. This trend first inherent in younger children.
Children desperately want to feel that parents love and accept them for what they are, regardless of victory or defeat they suffered at that moment. This important phenomenon is called ” unconditional love “. In short, unconditional love means that our children feel that we will never, under any circumstances, will not cease to love them. Can approve or not to take specific actions, the behavior of the child, but love for him should remain inviolable.
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From: heart of Steel country
Hello. Writing first time on this forum, I write out of desperation, like many here, I suppose. Please do not judge strictly.
Her husband of 39 years, I’m 25. We were familiar for a long time, but due to some reasons the relationship was formed in late 2010. I knew he like to eat, even once was the year in 2007 approximately. he was at home me and my MCH and we called the nurse to do a drip to him.
When we started Dating, I have put 3 conditions: 1. control of alcohol 2. to put in order the finances 3. to put in order themselves (belly grew).
He readily agreed, I was led, quite frankly, because of alcoholics near not seen, grandfathers drank, but it somehow didn’t concern me too much, lived separately, and one grandfather died last another 20 years of life did not drink at all. The father drank because had seen his drunken father, at least so he says.
Actually no serious plans on his account I had, he already had problems with the Finance crisis, its bungling (mostly). Began to live together. In January 2011 he took a biopsy. The result – cancer stage 1, a very evil form, obivously for 3-4 weeks. I dropped everything and we went for treatment to a nearby town. The treatment Continue reading