Natalia Nebarska teaches art to children and parents to correctly interpret creations kids. At 26 she is a mother of two wonderful daughters 2 and 7 years and head of the creative circle “Color bubbles” for children from 2 years to infinity. Natalia cheerful, ambitious and open. In a confidential conversation she told. why is it important to educate their children themselves, at what age can you trust the child a pencil and how much stereotypes affect the lives of modern parents.
– If you do not go into the psychology of transcripts of children’s drawing, it is best to ask the author, and that happens is that the baby is with mom’s hands are not painted, psychologist thinks is violence in the family, mother is a tyrant, and she’s actually behind them holding the gift, because hiding a surprise. And it is better just to look at — to Decipher the pattern correctly can only be a very experienced technician, and then after a conversation with the author.
– What age do I need to draw with your child?
– The child can draw from the moment he starts to turn over. Lay before him the paper or Wallpaper, give paint. Just remember that here the result is not important, important process! Continue reading
Parents sometimes face the situation that they tell the child one thing and he does not hear and does the opposite. There is the anger and outrage. Let’s see what was the matter. Why the child “hear” what you say? It turns out the child perceives our phrase on its own.
In the childhood phrase-programs are easily digested, as the child’s mind control is lower than in adults. Any careless word perceived by children literally. Parents, often without realizing it, inform the child of the phrase with a hidden installation that is not benefiting them. Of course, this happens unconsciously, we are trying to help, but use the incorrect phrase.
Today we look at the often used phrase and determine how their child hears.
«do Not walk through puddles, catch a cold”, “the dog ” bite”, “Eat slowly, your stomach will be sore”, etc.
The child hears that the world is hostile. All, whatever he did, it is dangerous. That is, it is better to do nothing.
In the future it may become passive, afraid to make a step towards peace, it will be difficult to achieve success in business requires determination.
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Desire love your child, to protect him from anxiety, to create a sense of security and the desire to constantly delight – it is the natural expression of the maternal instinct. In the first years of life the baby’s parents, both physically and psychologically, so mom and dad feel a great responsibility for everything that happens to him.
Often, however, love is inherent in man and woman by nature in relation to her child, becomes a dangerous border, and then mom and dad, consciously or not, begin to dominate the baby, and the baby turns into a little tyrant, exploiting the weaknesses of loved ones as a tool of manipulation over them. Overprotection and desire to fulfill all the whims of a child affects him negatively, so you must set some rules. and to demand from the child of their performance.
How to eliminate the blackmail
Almost everything we are sometimes violated certain rules: don’t go to work told the boss that you are sick, but actually just don’t want to go somewhere; we buy a bag of chips and a bottle of coke, even though I promised myself not to eat junk food; don’t brush our teeth before bedtime, because laziness and so on. Then why we say sharp «no» the request of the child with a chocolate bar on the way home or his desire to watch an interesting cartoon that started late?
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