Natalia Nebarska teaches art to children and parents to correctly interpret creations kids. At 26 she is a mother of two wonderful daughters 2 and 7 years and head of the creative circle “Color bubbles” for children from 2 years to infinity. Natalia cheerful, ambitious and open. In a confidential conversation she told. why is it important to educate their children themselves, at what age can you trust the child a pencil and how much stereotypes affect the lives of modern parents.
– If you do not go into the psychology of transcripts of children’s drawing, it is best to ask the author, and that happens is that the baby is with mom’s hands are not painted, psychologist thinks is violence in the family, mother is a tyrant, and she’s actually behind them holding the gift, because hiding a surprise. And it is better just to look at — to Decipher the pattern correctly can only be a very experienced technician, and then after a conversation with the author.
– What age do I need to draw with your child?
– The child can draw from the moment he starts to turn over. Lay before him the paper or Wallpaper, give paint. Just remember that here the result is not important, important process! Continue reading
Question 1: I recommend the book of Joyce brothers here (well, most of that on TV broadcasts), but the name unfortunately I do not remember, said there was something about miss Bock either inside the book or in the title. Maybe someone knows what is this book? And where can it free then download. )
Question 2: where possible, again for free download the book simultaneously “to Communicate with the child, how?”
There and the book’s title, and abstract to her, and cover photo, and even a couple of chapters to read.
About Simultaneously. The book is very good to read and it is definitely worth it. Not without reason she comes to mind as the first Association on the phrase “Books about parenting”. Roughly as “the poet – Pushkin”, “part of the face – nose,” etc.))))
What I like about her?
First, it is well written and with a big, sincere sympathy to the children and parents.
Secondly, it is written very logically, reasonably and consistently, and also based on a serious theory and practice. Raised issue (how to hear the child, how to increase the chance to be heard by the child, how to set boundaries in relationships with children, Continue reading
There is a special beast. Doesn’t bark – bites – in soul to the booth. Quiet alien, evil genius, the black sheep… And his name is the sound guy. Or otherwise – a person with a sound vector. Walks like a zombie Apocalypse: a look inside yourself. The house, which is empty. The owners left and the light is not extinguished. Anybody home?
You telling him about love, about plans for a future together until he’s staring into your computer. Crucified, words choose. He turns around, looks at you like first time at all he saw, and ask: “what did You say?” Leave to eat in the fridge – will forget. Asks to buy something – will not hear. “Didn’t you say? I have not heard!” How to communicate with this?
No wonder his mom complained that he since the childhood like this – “not like everyone else”. Other children will get to eat – run with glowing eyes. And this OREM-OREM – netherese. Fit get up close and in my ear shout: “Misha, dinner’s ready!” And then, the bastard pretends not to hear. As if specially bring to a white heat. In school the teachers complain: sits on the lessons of catching crows, ask for something – as if from heaven falls to the ground. “Huh? Who? I? What?” You do what galaxy you’re in, Misha?
Share emotions with him. Continue reading
Psychological trauma, such as lack of attention, lack of love given to the parents of the child, as well as other problems of a young child in the family are the main causes and roots of future psychological problems. If this person wants to understand the reasons why one or another psychological problem exists in his life, he will have to go back and to remember his difficult childhood.
Few can argue that his childhood was completely cloudless and happy. As a rule, most of us in a small child faced with a lack of attention . pay older, have experienced a lack of love and rejection of the very fact of its existence. All this inevitably contributed to the origin of those or other psychological trauma in children, which later resulted in specific psychological problems.
Man, being born, needs main things – unconditional love and infinite attention. Few people are born into extremely wealthy families. And few whose parents show unconditional love to their children. On the contrary, the prevailing part of the families (judging by the experience of Russia, it is about ninety percent of the total number according to unofficial statistics) – unsuccessful . The problems of a small child in such families are diverse: it can be single-parent families, Continue reading
Big_Damn_Hero all posts by I was Recently asked to work with a boy of ten, who all his free time spends on computer games. If he deny, maybe a day not to eat, with their parents not to talk. One day after the ban was a call from the school, reported that the son is truant for a week. It turned out that he walks instead of school to the Internet cafe to play. Parents went to an Internet cafe, did not let his son in school time, to limit the money. The boy began to steal, to take, to go to another cafe.
Began to look for the reason. Spent in the house a couple of days, looked how is the communication between parents and child.
Comes home from school, immediately behind a computer. Sometimes at the insistence of parents is to first lessons, but with an emphasis on speed and not quality. In the morning before school goes to check out the game. Lunch at the computer causing constant skirmishes with the parents.
Asked him to eat at the table once. He agreed. As per table nchego happens, the TV is on in the background all eat in silence or asking trite “As success in school.”
In the evening, parents are asked to turn off the computer. If the boy obeys, then they will Continue reading